Thanks F you are so right in all those comments. I won't be telling the boys, I don't think at this stage it is my job to tell them. I won't be telling anyone actually. I will still continue on the same track I was on.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.