I really try to just take things as they are at the moment but, and I'm sure some might relate to this, when I'm tired I start over analyzing? I still have an ok relationship with the in laws and as I do with the W so nothing will be that awkward and I've learnt from the boards to expect nothing. I've also learnt that whenever out to be the best person you can be and I'm never seen to be depressing around anyone.
I love my time with the kids and didn't think for a million years I'd be asked to spend Xmas with them and my W did say the kids would love you there at Xmas. I think I know what I want to do and the reason why I posted on here is because I was gonna text W and ask her the real reason behind the invite but that would have been a mega backslide so decided to ask the boards about the dilemma.
Thanks
M - 37 W - 35 T - 11 M - 5.5 SD13 D10 S4 ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12 Moved out 7 Dec 12 At present - Being the best dad i can be.
