You also didn't ask her for her log-in info on your first date to Chuck-E-Cheese either...
No, but that's because I didn't have 30 years of actions staring me in the face. Now, I have the actions to back up the character of the person.
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So where is that fine line ???
God if I know. Based upon the last 30 years, I'd have to be one big dummy to EVER trust my guy again.
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And I can tell you this....
You WILL deal with this regardless if you are reconciling, or if you are with a new person....
(BTW, even with your current spouse, you will, or should be, building a NEW relationship)
I completely get this. The old marriage died a very unsavory death. Poor thing. It was battered and punched and tarred and feathered naked on public square. (I did some of the tarring and feathering)
No matter what happens, we need a new relationship.
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Should trust have walls built around it ??
Do we give trust blindly, or better yet...should we?
He!!s to the NO.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
