so you have to have faith that the core of that person is good-and not hurting you with the intention of hurting you???
Faith in yourself to know/detect the difference, imo.
I'm not putting any faith in W for a long time, until proven otherwise. But I do have faith in myself to detect/discern/feel the truth of things, and/or, be able to handle it in case I was/am wrong.
I know her core is good, but with all the crap that's covering it up through this? Will she ever be able to clear it up and let that core shine back fully? And if she does, will she want to share the shine with me? Idk.
True...
BUT
You also didn't ask her for her log-in info on your first date to Chuck-E-Cheese either...
Did you ???
That would have been awkward..with that stupid Mouse watching and all...
So where is that fine line ???
And I can tell you this....
You WILL deal with this regardless if you are reconciling, or if you are with a new person....
(BTW, even with your current spouse, you will, or should be, building a NEW relationship)
Should trust have walls built around it ??
Do we give trust blindly, or better yet...should we?
I know MY answers, I am just curious of what else is out there...
