The expectations of things being one way or the other way, are the things that ultimately do the LBS in.
Same as always...it didn't break overnight, and it won't fix overnight.
Yes, I can attest to this.
This year, 2013, there were many times I said to myself "I have this strange feeling that the power is in my hand to mess this thing up permanently."
Mostly b/c I couldn't get past my own pain, lack of forgiveness, hurt, betrayed feelings, expectations, whatever.....
It's a tough road.
But TVS, you're much stronger than I was. You've got what it takes to hold yourself together, I just know it!
I think one of the only reasons my H & I have made it thus far, was he said he accepted reconciliation would be a rocky journey. He knew there would be hard times. He expected it, so was calm and understanding through it all. What a gift to me that was!
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
