If you want to leave the door open to reconcile, it's important to continue to be pleasant, but also to pull back and become less available, particularly emotionally. I would think twice about accepting dinner invitations. You need to mind-shift that having her return to the marriage will not be victory for you, and it shouldn't be a foregone conclusion that she can do so if that's what she chooses.
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What is the victory, if not having her return to the marriage?
If questions do arise, how do i express that i'm not interested in our old marriage, but a new beginning?
I'm slowly getting the the point where i feel like i'm the "prize to be won", having worked my butt off doing 180's that i'm really happy about. But I just don't feel like i'm quite there yet.
I really appreciate the more experienced insights, it helps me see what i could be missing, and I thank you for pointing me in the right direction.
