Newbies introduce yourself /moderation notes

[Fight4MyWife]

Hi, just dropping in to introduce myself here. Really in need of some advice.

I joined this forum and started a new topic last week and was hoping to get some advice from people after over a month of limited contact & being very disciplined.

Not sure how long it usually takes for the moderation, so my new topic appears, but in that time between posting last week and today I took a phone call from my wife and my situation has now changed slightly and may have undone much of the good work I have done over the past month.

It is frustrating that I might have handled the situation differently with a little advice on here if my post had appeared sooner.

How long does it usually take for the new topic to be approved?