And for that whole transparency discussion, what I am trying to work through myself, is, what does that REALLY look like? Being who I am, I'd rather figure out as much of that as possible NOW, BEFORE I get to where I need to apply anything like that.
I certainly don't want to be stumbling along making it up, figuring it, out as a reconciliation is in progress...just don't see that as aiding the process.
And it isn't as cut-n-dry as one might think.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm