Thanks for listing the things you are grateful for Pud. Thanks for the reminder! Being grateful for the good things in our lives is the only way to live in my opinion. Sometimes I look at my sitch and cry (okay, often I look at my sitch and cry smile ) about the pain, the betrayal, the lying. But.... we are all really so lucky. Even in MLC. Things could always be worse. I remember a poster last summer whose H's OW sent some thugs over to beat her up. I simply cannot imagine that.

I am truly blessed, and am grateful for:
--My sons and grand kids
--That my H is still living in our home with me
--Running water and indoor plumbing in general
--Heat in winter and air conditioning in summer
--Vision, even if it's a bit blurry

So, the big hill is looming ahead of us. The way to tackle it is by taking one baby step at a time! I agree with Heather, let's climb up and parasail down the other side! I want a rainbow colored one!


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17