Maybe it also helps that in my case I keep having dreams where AFTER OW gets dumped she does something nuts, like shoots my H in a public place.
You know, I wouldn't completely write off such feelings - or possibly, intuitions.
I do know of a case here where a woman's WAH was shot and killed in what appeared to be a random street killing; turned out to be a contract by the husband of the OW. Another case where the WAH was shot in the head and injured by the husband of the female coworked that the WAH insisted he was just friends with (but later, suspiciously, had an affair with).
