BrightFuture is right. You can't really blame yourself for failing to see the buildup of anger, sometimes there really are no outward signs, it's all been building up in their heads and waiting to explode out.

A few days ago mine came into the kitchen, looked at the grocery list and said, "you don't need to buy me any milk, I am not using it here anyways." I pointed out he used milk to make protein shakes the last few days, wouldn't he need milk for that.

He immediately got pissy and told me "I don't want to argue about it!" (Who was arguing? I was presenting an observation)

Crazytown.

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Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."