Update:

Text from w: Happy Birthday (my name)!!! Can I take you for a drink on Wednesday night?

Me. Thank you smile Wednesday works. What time?

I think I might ask w if she would like to see the nutcracker with me when I see her on Wednesday.

Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)