Fog City Coaster continues

[2ndtimearoundCA]

I guess w's OM is her job.... Nonetheless, I think I will still wait until tomorrow to respond. Nothing for three weeks ... and then the minute she texts me I am free? .... on a Friday? Something just seems wrong with that. I have a life damit lol

I still need to shift my focus to me and try to emotionally get off this coaster..

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Yesterday i responded to w's text:

Glad you've been released. Hopefully the Alien medical experiments weren't so bad for you. I've been super busy with work. Enjoy your Saturday.

She did not respond. Maybe I will hear from her tomorrow for my birthday...

I went out and had a great time with friends last night. Now it's back to the work grind.

[FlyOnTheWall]

Happy birthday buddy, hope you had a good one.

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Thanks fly! (It's today btw.) Just going out to dinner with the kids. We'll have fun

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Update:

Text from w: Happy Birthday (my name)!!! Can I take you for a drink on Wednesday night?

Me. Thank you Wednesday works. What time?

I think I might ask w if she would like to see the nutcracker with me when I see her on Wednesday.

[FlyOnTheWall]

I think that's an excellent idea!!

[AnotherStander]

That's a nice babystep from your W, but be careful with the pursuit! Remember, you posted this just 3 days ago:

"I am letting go of my w, while remaining open possibility that things can change.

I am going to try to shift the focus of my thread to me."

[2ndtimearoundCA]

That's a nice babystep from your W, but be careful with the pursuit! Remember, you posted this just 3 days ago:

"I am letting go of my w, while remaining open possibility that things can change.

I am going to try to shift the focus of my thread to me."

You're right AS. I need to be very careful. Three weeks of no contact and now she's back (from outer space)

I may hold off on the Nutcracker thing... I would need to get tickets soon however.

[FlyOnTheWall]

As long as you don't have any expectations for more, then go ahead and ask. If she says no, don't act disappointed, I know you wont. Just say "Maybe some other time". No biggie.

You know the rules, just stick to them.

[2ndtimearoundCA]

I am almost certain that she would say yes. I am less certain that she would actually go. ... Anyway I have a few days to think on it.