Hi Raine ~ I would give my right arm to be in your position at this point, I so eagerly want to have the opportunity to see if my H is willing to do the "work" with me... I can see this is trouble-some for you. Please appreciate where you are and don't sabotage your position.. Go slow!

T2 ~ you made a HUGE point: OUR SELF-DISCOVERY!!

I think most, if not all, of us "knew" something wasn't "right" before BD...thankfully we didn't know exactly what wasn't right, lol, I for one may have run for the hills and missed this opportunity to re-discover the core, real, me.

This is soooo hard, but if it was easy...it wouldn't be worth it!

Bustin on!!

Magic!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)