My WH has been in an affair for over a year, we are separated, every time I let go he wants to try again. For the past 6 months we have not seen each other and only spoke a couple of times. He filed for divorce at the insistence of the POSOW. I am not signing and hoping it will drop, he made a show of it but now lets see if he follows through.. anyway... the other night I asked him if he would read something with a completely open mind and not because he had to - was going to send him wayward fog information so he can see himself in this denial - and he responded. I am used to getting silence now that they live together but he said he would read whatever I sent. I asked where to send it and got no reply. So I dropped it. No contact since. As far as I know he is also not pressing through the divorce. But I am not sure where we are, it seems so completely over to me. Do people come back from this far gone? Can anyone help me figure out a plan at this point? I don't want a divorce, i fully believe we can restore our marriage.
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13
