You are one strong guy! You handled all that drama really well.
Your growth in this journey is truly inspiring!
When she said you never fought for her, I always wonder if they want to be pursued? But in DB terms its considered pressure? Where do you draw that fine line?
Thanks Martimer
They do want to be pursued, I have no doubt about that. All it does is confirm to them that you are still on the hook and boost their ego somewhat. Short term gain only. My W needs to realize what she has put me through and that the grass is only as green as you care for it.
I'm quite confident I could possibly persue and snatch her away from OM2. All she would learn from that is what she has done works.
It's a bit like rewarding a kids bad behaviour.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
