So has your W actually said that she just has no interest in sex, and will never do it? Or is she not meeting your needs in this area because she feels that her needs in the M aren't being met?
She doesn't want to talk about it anymore. It's beating a dead horse. She says she feels guilty about not having sex. She says she understands my need. And so she'd say she'll think about it and consider it. And then nothing happens, ever. Time just passes. Weeks and months. And if I bring it up again after a long time, I get the same answer. If I bring it up again soon, she'll say I'm pressuring her and that's a turn-off.
