How do i react when she keeps saying that she doesn't want to lose her daughter?
She says that she feels like because she is away, that if it came to a divorce the court would make it look like she "abandoned" her.
This is not at all what i want. I want to be a family #1. But #2, if we cannot be a family, I would NEVER take her away from her.
She is a GREAT mom. Do I play this close to the chest? or do I express that this isnt' something she should be worrying about, and that i would never keep them apart, and that she needs to focus on what she wants right now?
