One giant leap forward! - Part 9

[T1000]

When she told you OM fought for her.... she doesn't understand she left you, it isn't all that easy trusting again and you'd need some time to do so. Also she'd have to be single for that process to even start.

I didn't get a chance to catch up on the last few pages of your previous thread...but it does seem that since you were unsure about your feelings you didn't communicate fully how you were feeling to her and didn't let her know what all of the boundaries/conditions would be for you to consider returning.

I'd say this would need to have been thought of ahead of time as none of us know when our spouses will peek out of their fog.

She sounds like she's not ready to do the work it takes as she complained of jumping through hoops, but she needs to know it will not be easy if you two do move forward and as you said your self you are still angry and allow your emotions to step in on your behalf at times.

Hope this week is better for you.

Thanks Mimi,
When we spoke three weeks ago I did tell her it wouldn't be easy and that right now I don't trust her and that I had to think. She had the info she needed from me at the time, it just didn't fit in with her rushed plans.

When you say she doesn't understand that OM2 fought for her but she had left me you are totally correct.
At the end of the day what am I fighting for...someone who will treat me like this...not worth the fight.