Thank you. I definitely have felt like a single mom with a boarder living in my house. He is obviously not my partner but can't call him roommate either as he now does nothing around house.

I am doing a fair job with 180ing my reactions. I would give myself a B- at this point.

GAL is harder and I am really impressed with some of the success I have seen with folks on this board.

I have used sons behavior for years as an excuse why I couldn't get out and do things. That and my work schedule. I am planning to start exercising again. I stopped when this all started because it was something H and I did together. I also started an online writing course.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15