Thought I would check in and journal some. Last Wednesday we attended S9 basketball game. W and I sat together. I did get a shove for teasing. She talked lots about the boys as babies going to the game and then held S9 in bed later and said she missed holding him.
Friday we enjoyed family night at the movies. She and I exchanged glances on those parts where they always interject something the adults understand. Had a nice time.
Saturday she came up early and got ready in the guest bathroom. She took S6 to his game and I took S9. We texted back and forth updating scores. She and S6 made it back for most of the S9 game. I ran the scoreboard so she sat with my parents and my extended family. Afterwards we all went out for lunch. W sat next to my dad. I'm sure he enjoyed visiting with her.
Yesterday W sent me a text early to see what she might be forgetting to do after church. Stated that the meds make her forgetful. I teased her that she should remember to shower. Everyone at church would appreciate that. Went to church together and sat as a family. After church we came home and had lunch. W took S6 for basketball pics and then we met at the church gym to play. The boys and I played basketball while W walked the track.
Last night both boys went down to stay at Ws. She texted 30 mins later to ask me to come get S9. He was missing me. I went and he met me at the door with tears and a hug. Brought him home and he went right to bed.
So, an enjoyable yet busy weekend. Lots of good family time that seemed normal. I'm still being the best I can be. Continuing the journey!
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later