Also had you considered other 180 approaches for the phone?
Always be upbeat. when she comes over for dinner you could do something like say 'I'm not letting the outside world interfere with a good dinner and company, I'm putting my phone on silent in my room.' Let go of your expectations, she will probably not give it up that easily but a few mores times she might actually show you respect back.

You are still on a journey for your life lessons - let go and find comfort that time is on our side as each day we learn and are equipped with even more knowledge then before because of the awesome info on here.


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