I think I did a pretty good job of detaching last night. H asked me to play chess and then we sat and watched Walking Dead. No personal conversation and he disappeared at every commercial but I didn't ask what he was doing.

After he was back sitting in car in driveway texting OW. I am guessing this is what he was doing but I didn't go out to see. For the first time in weeks I fell asleep without listening for when he came in.

This morning he was back in car texting at crack of dawn. I had to remind him to go say goodbye to son before he left for work.
He used to be so devoted to him and I am starting to see a distance. In a few weeks S is in school play. That same day he has a dr. appt with a specialist we have been waiting over a year to see. H told me he couldn't ask off work for either even with a month notice.

This can't just be about OW or his feelings about me?

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15