MLC or not - know your rights, protect yourself

[willbwell]

golf mom, I am glad you posted.
I am that person that needs to read this... I have been one to think "not my h".

I know I have been avoiding... thinking "surely my h will do the right thing"

I have photocopied tax docs and credit card statements.
Think h has another cc that he uses to hide A. Presently(joint cc) statements still come to the house.
H travels for his job. gets hotel/dinners reimbursed. he turns in receipts. He pays out of our joint, but where does the $go that gets reimbursed. I am a big dummy for not asking. WHY??
because I am afraid too. I am waiting on h to turn around and do the right thing. even as I say it I hear how stupid I sound.

I am still dealing with the FEAR of being alone, having to work, pay bills on my own.( I have been a stay at home for 20 years)

Just as I want h to wake up. I need to wake up too!!! I know.pretending is not going to make it go away.