Me 13 months on, affair finally confirmed.

[Fartiltre]

HWA.

I am so sorry that you are hurting – it is totally understandable!
Realizing this (suspicions or not) must be a major kick in the b@lls.

I think you are handling it very well.

You have already gotten comments from several people and I agree with most. Especially I agree with you in your “rant”-post. You are better than this! I have followed your threads for a long time and you are WAY better than this. I know you will stay on your path and that you will choose the high road in this.

At the same time I would let this sink in before you talk to your boys if you choose to do so. It seems like your W will make this public anyway so perhaps you should hold your horses a little. You can always have the talk with the boys but you can’t undo it when it is done and officially you don’t know this if I have read your post right. IMO that means you do NOT talk to the boys yet.


The most important comment you have gotten is IMO:

Your sitch didn't change, just your perception of it.

You have gotten a confirmation of something you suspected for a long time. What you have done and have to do shouldn’t change because of this. I understand the need to blow some steam – a lot of it! But when that is done I also know that you know what to do!

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