Don't know what to think

[T-boned]

Thank you Tigerlily. I think my head is in the right place but it's so hard to stay there. Check out my reponse to Whiterose - I just finished it and am in tears at the moment. Plus I need to go to bed. It's late, as usual, and I have to be up at 5am.

I will keep up with you - not sure if I will be posting much about my sitch for a while. It seems to be at a place where what else can you say? Says he hasn't filed yet, wasn't sure if he was supposed to do that first or get a mediator lined up first. I just asked him to let me know when he does file so I can expect the paperwork - not be surprised. He said he would.