Sounds like maybe you need to work on self control when it comes to saying things out loud?
If you haven't come up with any goals yet, maybe that can be one?
I'm usually good with keeping my mouth shut or biting my tongue. But this phone thing just irritates me. It's actually quite ridiculous how much she's on it. Nevermind all the selfies she takes. At least once a day sometimes more.
BUT I just have to let this slide. There have been so many positive things that this is just another bump in the road.
It is a goal of mine that I've been working on for years. During the relationship it was hard because I felt disrespected. Since we're broken up I have no right to question what she does on her phone. Hopefully that makes it easier for me to not ask. I mean I basically handled her phone situation fine the last time she left me.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
