Sounds like you made some very good realizations Rosa, I think you have the situation perfectly pegged. I hope seeing the situation so clearly for what it is will help continue to reinvigorate your resolve.

Best wishes!

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BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."