But I can also understand how an HD husband can appear to a LD wife. So I don't bug my wife about it, and I'm only airing my complaints here. She's certainly heard the complaints enough in the past.

I remember an Oprah show several years ago about men who cheat, and reactions from many women. I remember some angry responses that made me laugh: "All he wants is sex, sex, sex!" And, "All he thinks about is himself and his penis!" I can see how it seems that way when you have little interest yourself, no matter how much it's sugarcoated with candlelight dinners, flowers, presents, etc.