WOW 3, you continue to amaze me. I second everything melissag said.
Maybe your H needed to see the firm side of you and you gave that too him. I think this is exactly what I will be talking to my db coach tomorrow about.
I admire the way you have handled this so far. It's ok to be scared, it's a new step. If you feel deep in your core that you did what was right, then it is only that much better for you.
YOU...will be OK. I just know it. HUGS 3!!!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.