It does make me nuts. I keep thinking I'm doing great with the db and doing ok with the pma and then pffffft.

If they want to leave then why make it so hard on the people left behind. They have no regard for our feelings anymore, which is still incomprehensible to me...how....HOW does that happen?

I love your analogies tiger, and the way you write so well. Put your freakin' feathers elsewhere H! lol!

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.