Oh tiger, we are in the same spot right now. Sick of the status quo. If they really want to 'get on' with their lives why don't they just DO IT. Bleah.
It's ok for us to be moody once in awhile, sheesh, they do it all the time! I know I have explained or had to remind H of many convos we've had.
Doesn't it just make you nuts? If they want to go SO BAD, then just go fly little cuckoo birds! Be free! Keep flapping until you are tired and ready to come home and roost and work on the nest! And stop plucking feathers our of MY nest to make yourself comfortable somewhere else!
The whole sense of entitlement really gets my goat. They think they deserve it all, and anyone who thinks different needs to just shut up and get out of the way. Hrrrmph.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."