Printing out articles about libido, desire, and what diminishes it , may help as visuals if you sit her down.
Been there done that. She resents it and sees it as me just wanting to have sex. She's sick and tired of it. And besides, she not interested in sex at all, and doesn't believe in doing it as a "marital duty". And I'm not interested in that either.
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It was important to me to not just do it, but to learn and participate, experiment, and yes seek some gratification too!
If only I could get my wife to see it that way. I really believe I have tried all the standard remedies.
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