New to the board, fairly newly LBS from MLC.

[tigerlily78]

Well, he is content with the status quo. Over the weekend I started to get kind of pissed about it. I had my shopping list ready to go Saturday, he didn't want to go shopping and didn't want to give me a debit card to go on my own.

Today he came home earlier than I expected and thought I should be ready to go shopping and do laundry when he magically arrived, and instead I was sleeping in. (I stayed up late and I have been having some very troubling dreams that make it hard to go back to sleep). Then by the time I was ready to get up he informed me he thought he was leaving before dinner time (I asked for clarification as to what TIME that would be). He said it would be 4 or so, so I concluded I wouldn't have time to do the laundry today either. He told me not to run off with the car again today. I asked if he needed it. He said for groceries and laundry. I said that's fine then, but I don't feel like doing either of those things today. He wanted to know again where I go anyways when I leave. I told him not to worry about it, it's not like I am driving around looking for my soulmate just yet." He eventually took it upon himself to gather up and attempt to do just his OWN laundry in a load. He needed to ask me what the "trick is" the using our washer which has been in disrepair for 4 years (I have explained this process to him dozens of times). I was kind of pissy about showing him, AGAIN. I got dressed and told him I was going to run, didn't know how long I was going to be gone, and that he could take the list and go get the groceries if he wanted.

I did my run and then ended up walking about 5 miles extra in a circuit around the neighborhood because I just did not want to be here.

Apparently while I was gone he worked to make it so we can stream some movies and tv shows from our computer to the TV via our Playstation. He told my son via message that this was "for mom or whoever." I am sure he thinks that if only I was properly distracted being able to watch tv and movies, then I wouldn't be such an emotional spaz over this whole thing. :P