From what I've read, Piecing can take a lot of work before you feel "normal" again.
I've read in older threads it can take years to sort through all of the feelings and settle into the brand new relationship. That's were counseling comes in to help with this.

Her leaving it was kind of created a thrill of the chase....now that you've got her back the thrill is gone. Its going to take work to get back and keep that loving feeling going...

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope