Well do I feel silly. I didn't realize I was on moderation.
So, I received DR and have read through to Step 3 which is when I should be writing down my goals, and I'd like some help getting specific.
I'm doing the 180 and additionally I'm looking hard for a new job. I need to be independent whether we divorce or not. I was gone with friends and family most of the weekend and have a job interview. So, my goal personally and for the marriage is my becoming more self sufficient. Possibly he might react by .... I'm not sure here what small things to achieve.
We aren't having sex and that would be great, but that seems like a very big goal. He is affectionate, always has been, so that means nothing.
