I am better off just letting him pay the mortgage and stuff if he is still willing to. (He keeps saying this is his intention). But then that feeling may change if I let him know he is no longer welcome to come and go as he pleases.
Then, leave it alone until you know your rights for sure. First priority, be a smart business woman. This will vital for your son right now. He needs at least one parent to think clearly. He's counting on you.
I know this is a lot of pressure. But, I would shelf any decision about living arrangements until business is taken care of.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson