Originally Posted By: newman7977
So wait, your D is not final? Is there a hearing in 3 months to finalize this D? If so bring it up to the hearing, hopefully it will help get you to get the at least 50/50 custody.

There is no more hearing. Awaiting divorce certificate after the judge granted the divorce order.

Originally Posted By: PatientMan

Call her bluff.

I know her. She wouldn't even care anymore. I will not lower myself.

Originally Posted By: PatientMan

Stop. Not only is that not your job anymore (she is divorcing you), but protecting her from the consequences of her decisions isn't loving her.

I'm silent on whatever she did. Taking the high road. Let life teach her whatever she is suppose to learn.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet