TVS, you seem to be in a good place, mentally. It is interesting how you think there is a correlation between your H and OW and him sleeping in your bed or on the couch. I think it speaks a lot about OW, that she was your friends and now she is involved with your H, at the same time knowing that he still lives with you. I just don’t understand this kind of behavior, and I think I never will.
Wishing you lots of patience.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state