GUILT IS IT A GOOD SIGN?

[BrightFuture]

rH, it is always helpful to read your posts, whether you think you answered the question or not. Did you ever think about filing for D yourself? My H is miles away and we don’t discuss anything anymore. He has not filed, but there is nothing to indicate that he might change his mind. I’ve been friendly through all of this, but recently I don’t want to do it anymore. I just cannot make that last step, I guess.

Ambiv, don’t think about OW too much. You don’t even know for sure what kind of relationship they have yet, right? She might be just one of these women who like to be friends with men without giving it too much thought how his W would like at that. And even if she is an OW, she has to compete with you. This is right, believe it or not. This is just a human nature.