Thanks for the input guys. I have been trying really hard to stay detached and called her for the first time in a week today. Kept it short (10 minutes) didn't talk about the relationship and felt good about it. I complimented her hair and that was it. Now she is texting me some talking about the split details. She wants to keep the dog while I am deployed. I don't know if I should agree with her on this because I know she loves the dog more than me, and it would make her happy. Or if it would put me at even more of a disadvantage for giving in. Sanity check? Thanks guys.
