I told her I have kept my mouth shut to protect her.
Stop. Not only is that not your job anymore (she is divorcing you), but protecting her from the consequences of her decisions isn't loving her.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
