P.S. Having him move out also honors his wishes. It sorta forces him to "jump into this fantasy" that he feels he wants.
If you go that route, you can always say to him, "I'm honoring your decision to leave this family. This is what YOU are saying you want." Let him have at it. Real life forces its way into every fantasy--sooner or later living at Disneyworld becomes just another drain on the wallet and irritating as he!! because it's constantly full of kids!!
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
