I didn't invite my H last year. I held firm on this point because I decided the girls and I really needed a holiday without ANY pressure. The day was awesome. Awesome.

My mom came, we laughed, we watched movies, we relaxed.

It comes down to you what you want for the holiday.

I wish there was an easy answer. There isn't. I have no regrets about last year.

Will you regret it if you don't invite him? If you do?

What's your ultimate goal?

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson