I sure hope you are documenting these events. If not go back to your previous posts and write them down. Revisit with your L, see what you can do to protect your kids.
So wait, your D is not final? Is there a hearing in 3 months to finalize this D? If so bring it up to the hearing, hopefully it will help get you to get the at least 50/50 custody.
Hang in there,
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.