GUILT IS IT A GOOD SIGN?

[reachingHigher]

Aww...Ambiv, I shoulda read more of your thread before I spouted off, lol!

Communicating only by typing these words, leaves a lot out!

I didn't realize about the homework...so you're letting him know that you feel sexy and youthful. That's great!

I see, you are addressing his concerns...your low desire, has been heightened by you choosing clothes, activities, dancing, etc. and you're letting him know that's what you are .... and he can share in that when he comes back?

And the C ... I don't like my H's choice of C ... she thought open M would solve our problems, etc. but she did have some tidbits of truth now and then....like she told him that a new R would only be good for six months - 2 years and then the same thing would happen if he didn't fix himself.

Lemme not be too hasty again....I like that you know what to do....the mother thing is so hard to get out of, IMO. My H STILL calls me "Mother" and I despise it and the MC has told me I wanna be called something different, but he can't do it right now. Whatever.

I'm glad you are strong and healthy and moving along.

It's neat we are the same age....love it!

I'm working on showing respect for my H and have really tried to look him in the eye and engage fully present whenever he talks. It's amazing how easy it is to slip into poor habits...or slip back into poor habits!