How to convince resistant LD wife?

[Ambivalent]

Oh, I do want to tell you, I did not know from where my lack of desire came. I had to do reading on this to see where it may apply to my life, previous and in the recent past.

So your wife would have to work on herself , either in therapy or do research on her own to figure it out. Because she isn't interested, this could be very difficult. If this is a major thing for you, then you have some tough decisions to make.

Printing out articles about libido, desire, and what diminishes it , may help as visuals if you sit her down.

MWD writes about marital vows and from a prospective of breaking the vows. This hit ME right between the eyes.

It was important to me to not just do it, but to learn and participate, experiment, and yes seek some gratification too!