3, you should be so proud of yourself. I can't imagine a better way for you to handle this crappy situation. I know how hard it is to be vulnerable (same issue in my M, something I am working on) and I am so impressed that you kept it together.

That must have been very difficult to get no response from H. Who knows what H's crying was about, but if he's like most Hs and rarely cries, I'd venture to say he is upset by more than just the threat to his delusional post-D world.

You have given him a lot to think about. Hopefully he will get his head out of his u know what and start to see things in reality.

I know you are probably scared right now - it is really hard to have no idea what is going to happen - but you can take comfort knowing that you are taking care of yourself and your family and that you are stronger than you probably even knew.

Hang in there!! ((hugs))

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14