Despite having a significant other - I spend significant amount of time alone. Usually I'm fine with it - even welcome it. Sometimes, especially in restaurants it makes me a bit uncomfortable. Loser? No way. None of us are.
Gineen - what are you afraid of? You've decided you want someone in your life but when you get close - you stop. You have to take that giant leap of faith. "It's Raining Men" is just a song - they don't fall from the sky - when you want something bad enough - you go for it. You have to do the work.
Everyone fears rejection but sometimes you have to risk it.
Choosing to be alone is fine & does not make one a loser. If you decide you don't like being alone - then you make a plan to change it.
