Oh and I made it clear that I do not want her in our home whether I am here or away, that this is MY sanctuary and they can go whore around anywhere else in the world. And that I don't feel it would be appropriate for OW to meet or see our son for at least 6 months, and this is based on the advice of our son's behavioral therapist. So it's not like "because I am mean" ... it is for our son's benefit really and truly. He doesn't know there is an OW yet, just that DAD is having transitional life issues, so it should make perfect sense that she is NOT a part of his life for a long time yet to come.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
